Connecting to others is an art and the person who knows that art of connection is successful.
Being a social animal, we work as per our own limited knowledge. We are normally good to people who are good to us. But when someone is not behaving well, we tend to change our attitude, our response and our behavior towards that person. Instead of changing ourselves, we wait for the other person to change. So neither do we find change in others nor in ourselves.
When we know the art of perceiving others specialities and connecting to them, we are always successful. We are then not dependent on the other person’s behavior for our own growth. We are able to see each one’s positive aspect and take it in ourselves too. So we are richer with each interaction. And that interaction automatically brings confidence in us to deal with any kind of person.